so so sad

As I've mentioned before this blog has been my safe place to vent, chat, laugh, whatever. However, there are people out there that have nothing better than to do but throw stones. So, my blog is their new pet project to find a way to bash me.

I am not perfect. I have never claimed to be perfect.

But, my children and I have been wronged. I have not given the long drawn out, drama filled, police reported detailes of my previous marriage. I just didn't feel it was necessary. I am in the right and I have no need to defend my self. I will tell you that I have sole custody of my four children. The courts do not award this without good reason. They feel it is best for both parents to be in a childs life and I am in full agreement with this, unless those children are in danger. That should explain it all.

Now I am under attack by my ex's circle of friends. The funny thing is, if you were in his shoes and really were angry about not having access to your children would you:

a) go through the courts. Establish that you are stable, caring and have the childrens best interest in mind. Demonstrating your ability to cooperate and be mature.

b) call everyone and their brother to claim the injustice that has been done while not actually doing anything FOR the children.

c) call names, pass judgement, be irrational, threatening (which is why there is a restraining order still in place...)

d) choose to place a phone call once in a blue moon to "show your interest."

I think the writing is on the wall.

Happy Sunday everyone. I am going to spend time with my family and reassure them that they are safe.